Anger Management
I was part of the Church about the time that many churches began to require
premarital counseling before they would allow a couple to marry in their church.
This is an excellent plan and could translated into other areas of church life.
I am a crime show buff - I learn a lot about human nature from crime shows.
One thing I have learned - is that some of the angriest people keep the calmest public facade.
And as a crime show buff, I have seen shows where a pastor or pastor's wife killed the spouse.
I've also seen deacons and church secretaries get mixed up in the mess, as the paramour.
I think an 'anger management course' should be mandatory for bible college students,
pastors and for anyone aspiring to be a deacon.
(But then, I think every professional should have this training for employment
pastor, police, politician, teacher, nurse, etc. I am seeking to take such a class too,
so that I can lead by example.)
I also feeling that a pastor or Deacon Board can direct an attendee
to go through anger management as part of church-discipline.
It would be best if there were a Christ-based Anger Management Program for churches to use.